Housework may seem the ultimate romance killer. But how do you think that?
A new survey shows pairs of husbands and wives, the housework done the more the number of sex with their spouses may be occurring more frequently.
Michael Witte
The previous investigation has hinted at this link home with the men; to see her husband leaned over mopping the floor or washing bowl and chopsticks may cause a lot of wives love their hearts. But the United States, "Journal of the Family" (Journal of Family Issues) web site recently published survey shows that there are housewives in the more housework the more frequent sexual relations, which is really surprising. The magazine of 6,877 couples conducted the survey.
Wiping the floor does not flirt with passion, love to see you do not have aphrodisiac effects normally. Chicago writer Julie • Danis (Julie Danis) said that my husband likes laundry, but he did not flipping my touch of "sex" letter. Also, I do not think he saw me pick up his daily garbage around the time I will feel sexy.
But the researchers say, those believe in "work hard and enjoy" a successful career people, the hard work in one area will bring more energy on other areas. The survey also found that the number of hours spent on paid work, and the frequency of marital sex exists between the association.
New Jersey, Montclair State University (Montclair State University) for families and children study's lead researcher, assistant professor Constance • Jia Jie (Constance Gager) said that these men of action does not seem to work and family time because of the needs of sexual life to make sacrifices, they are the sexual as a top priority. The survey does not keep statistics on the number of couples belong to this group; but Jiajie think they are leading, we expect the future will see more such couples.
I interviewed a lot of husband and wife give another explanation ─ ─ housework may represent the common interests of an investment will be a kind of symbol of home and family devotion. Danis said, perhaps doing the same thing to recall why would anyone make The couple married ─ ─ through thick and thin, and create life.
• Tom Dolan (Tom Doran) is a Plymouth, Mich., an engineer. He said that doing housework can promote him and his wife's friendship and intimacy. His wife was an administrative assistant. • John Rogers (John Rogitz) is a San Diego a married 30-year lawyer. He said that if the couple together with household chores, it also means that you live alone, stay in a two-person feel relaxed and comfortable place. He added that when you are not allowed to stay in local conditions, that's going to happen will be very difficult to sex.
Another accountant from St. Paul, Minnesota, said he has been married 20 years, very happy. He said the two men doing housework reflects a deeper relationship. He said in the letter, although he has done a lot of housework, but for him, it is important is not washing dishes, laundry, cleaning with the vacuum cleaner, nor is it Viagra tablets. He said the sharing of housework reflects the willingness of my wife's needs and ideas as my own. For us, the key is to keep a close sharing, and selfishness to a minimum. His wife is a nurse, agrees with this view; she said that to be sure is to share part of the housework.
Is also possible, doing housework a return on a quiet and clean ─ ─ ─ ─ benefit affectionate home. Tracey from New York • Evans (Tracy Evans) said that if the house clean, own and her husband will certainly be more relaxed. She said on the point.
But she said, excessive exposure to household chores will be counterproductive, if it and hope everything perfect place to link the words of the psychological doctrine ─ ─ for example, insisted the decision in accordance with good condiment shelf in alphabetical order only after a break. Evans said, may be a busy morning in the blink of an eye later, you do not have to spend time with love. The researchers did not examine whether household chores to a certain critical point of diminishing returns and then go, spent too much time on housework because it will impede the affectionate husband and wife.


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